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11 things people over 50 don’t want to hear

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11 things people over 50 don’t want to hear

11 things people over 50 don’t want to hear

11. “Did people really used to do that back in the day?”

10. Do not call us anything that you would also call a person under age 8 unless that person happens to have the same name as ours.

That includes ““Young fella” “Sweetie,” or worst of all, “Young lady” or “Young man.” “How are you today, young lady?” It is insulting and generally sounds stupid. Sexy Senior Citizen is another no no.

9. Don’t start a sentence with the words “you used to be…”.

The implication is that I am no longer that thing. You used to be beautiful. You used to be a great dancer. Treat and say the same thing you would say to us as you would any age group. Practice courtesy.  Never say anything in a condescending or patronizing manner to us.

8. Never approach us in a store and ask if we would be happier shopping in another section. This section is the newest in fashion.

7. Just because we’re in jeans and sweatshirt doesn’t mean we don’t have money.

6. Don’t tell us we wouldn’t understand something when we’re making a purchasing decision. Most of us are smart enough to bring someone with us who knows more than the salesperson.

5. If you have a legitimate reason for asking our age, don’t say anything like “how many years young are you?. Never say anything that indicates you are considering them to be “different” than other people because they are “older”.

4. Don’t call us “grandma” or “grandma” unless, of course, we really are your grandparents.

3. Never ask “What is it like to know that you’ll die soon, as in being very old?”.

2. Don’t try to encourage us by telling about the 90-year-old woman you know who ran a marathon. We know what we can do, and hearing that some physical marvel can literally run rings around us does not help.

  1. Don’t criticize our outdated clothes or shoes, the wrinkles on their face, or the kind of jewelry they wear.

After Fifty Living™ was founded by Jo-Anne Lema, a genuine Boomer and member of the 50+ generation. As she likes to say, “Our enormous generation is charting new territory – we’re healthier, better educated, and more financially fit than any other generation at this time. And, as we march through history, 110 million strong – unique, new issues are developing. It’s exciting to be a part of the development and growth of AfterFiftyLiving.com. This is a historic solution for a historic generation.”

Jo-Anne spent many years in the financial and operations side of higher education after having received a doctorate in education management and administration from Harvard, and an MBA from Southern New Hampshire University. Launching out on her own, though, has been the fulfillment of a life dream. Jo-Anne believes that “AfterFiftyLiving™ will delight its visitors, catalyze its partners, and will significantly benefit those who engage it.”

Residing in New England along with her husband of 35+ years, she never ceases to brag about her two children and 4 grandkids!

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