A SHARED STORY: TRANSITIONING TO A RETIREMENT COMMUNITY
PATRICIA OTERO
After researching retirement communities with a friend for her mom, I decided there wasn't enough information. On the surface they all look the same - same amenities, very pleasant introduction and tour. But I started asking "How are you different from the others communities?" Many of the directors gave me the same responses. I wanted to know what happens when you leave the person that you love in the hands of someone else. I could see what happens when things are running smoothly but what happens when they don't? I started interviewing the nurses on day and evening shifts asking questions like, "How often do you look in on them? What happens when they want to be anti-social/sulking? How long will they be allowed to stay that way before someone talks to them?" I looked at the activities, spoke to the activities director, checked with housekeeping to see what they know and I found out they know a lot. They see everything! But most importantly, I spoke with the other seniors, different ages, some who moved in recently and some who had been there for years. I asked the following: Do you like it here, do you like the food, do you have friends? I got good answers! Now I place seniors in homes, pack what's moving in with them, unpack, hang the pictures. I sell what the family doesn't want and everybody is safe, happy and worry free! I know they will be fine. I like what I do and I am good at it. I have found a career I love as a result of helping a friend in need!
Editor's Note: The author is the owner of Homes & Estates Liquidation Providers and can be reached at www.LiquidationProviders.com or 408-309-2251.
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